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Loss of a Spouse
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Thread Starter: Angelstar
Started: 02-02-2009 11:34 AM
Replies: 4
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 02 Feb 2009, 11:34 AM
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Hello.
My name is Angel. On New Years Eve 2008, I lost the love of my life, My Life Partner Mal. We were together 10 years and created a beautiful fairytale life together.
Im struggling so much with her being gone. I feel lost and non functional.
I also feel like No one around me understands my sense of loss and grief.
Mal and I were so totally in love we coulnt stand to do anything without the other. 10 years we had it that way, Now I feel like half of me is gone.
Im just completely devastated.
Thanks for listening.
Angel
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25 Jun 2009, 3:20 AM
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Angel....
I AM SO SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS.. JUST WANTED TO SAY I AM HERE FROR YOU IF YOU NEED IT.....
AMY
OWNER TO A PERFECT ANGEL IN HEAVEN
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19 Jul 2009, 5:34 PM
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Angel,
I am so very sorry for your loss...My heart and prayers go out to you. I hope that through the past few months you have begun find some healing. It is hard for our family and friends to understand the feelings we have, the depth of the pain we endure, and the length of time it may take us to process and walk through all of it. As the world still turns around us, and people go on with their lives, we seem to be stuck in limbo, and unable to escape the grief and confusion that has become our daily trial. I lost my husband and soulmate of 18 yrs just 2 short months ago, and i completely understand the non functional feeling. I walk around in a daze most of the time, and am still going through the "what will I do without him" and "how can I survive this" stage. We too did everything together, from hunting and fishing and camping, to working together for a majority of those 18 yrs. We spent almost all of our time together, and we enjoyed that time. He has been with me for half of my life, and I still do not know what the future holds for me...but I do know this, his love will always be with me, his memory is in everything I do, and while all the pieces of my heart are not present, I do know that someday, my heart will heal enough to allow me to move on. Something that is helping me day to day is that I have found a new friend, someone who has also lost her husband, and we encourage each other daily. We both understand the pain, and the anger, and confusion that the other feels...and we can help to hold each other up when we are feeling weak. Praying for you, for peace and healing.
Sheri
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04 Sep 2009, 12:07 AM
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Boo,
Just take one day at a time to learn to live with your pain. I do not think there is one way to explain HOW to deal......we have to deal with it as we must.
I lost John Paul in 2006, and my pain is a real as the night I was told. I have to fight and force myself to get through each day. But I do, and I do not care what others say, we grieve for our love ones individually, and there is NO right way or wrong way, just your way.
Take baby steps and do what is most comfortable to you......
I will gladly be here for you any time you need to talk /email!!!!
tru2uchappy@gmail.com
Hugs and dont be afraid of your heart!!!!!
***** Chapman ^jp^
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02 Nov 2009, 9:52 PM
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I lost my husband of 37 years 2 months ago. I married him at 18 years old and am having so much trouble living without him. My kids have been wonderful but they are greving the loss of their dad too and I do not want to make them worry about me. I can not believe this is going to be my life forever!! I keep thinking he will be back. He had cancer and died at home and though I am so glad I was their for him I can not get those images out of my head. I cry myself to sleep every night. He was a great husband and father, my soul mate. I know everyone says it will get better with time, but I am feeling worse everyday and missing him more and more!! Thanks for listening.
Debbie
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